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stephanie anderson ladd

The In Between

oldfrenchfairyta00sgrich_page_0461In the time between Christmas and New Year my favorite things are:

Resting and enjoying my home and family

Yesterday my hubby Rob and I went for a bike ride into town in 60 degree weather and had tea at The Open Eye.

We went to see Avatar last night–loved it. See it in 3-D! A wonderful message about indigenous people and taking care of our mother, meaning whatever planet or moon we live on–in this movie we are the aliens who didn’t love their Mother and are in search of other resources to exploit on the distant moon, Pandora. Needless to say, our arrival opens up a Pandora’s box of troubles for the indigenous people — wonderful, large, lithe, blue creatures that have much in common with Native American tribes.

Making delicious food like this:

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BAKED APPLE PANCAKE

Start by peeling and thinly slicing about a pound of fresh, tart apples (about 4 big apples)
3 large eggs
3/4 c. milk (soy/rice milk works fine)
3/4 c. flour
1/2 t. salt
1 T. + 1/4 c. butter
1/4 c. brown sugar
cinnamon and nutmeg to taste
powdered sugar

Preheat oven to 450 degrees. Beat together eggs, milk, flour and salt until smooth. Add 1/2 c. thinly sliced apples. Melt T. butter in cast iron skillet in oven; coat bottom and sides of pan and then pour in batter and put in oven for 15 minutes. Then turn temperature down to 350 degrees for last 10 minutes until pancake is light brown and crisp. If bubbles form, puncture with fork. While pancake is baking, saute rest of thinly sliced apples in 1/4 c. butter in skillet on stove and add brown sugar. Season to taste with cinnamon and nutmeg and saute until apples are tender, but not too soft, about 8-10 min.

When pancake is ready, slide onto plate, pour apple filling onto one side and fold pancake over. Pour a little melted butter on top and sprinkle with powdered sugar.

Tarot card reading for the New Year

Here’s good way to do a reading for the entire year: A full moon spread. Lay out 13 cards in a crescent shape for each of the full moons in the year. Write down your reading for each card and each full moon and see how it corresponds for the year ahead. Did you know we’ve got a blue moon coming up on New Year’s Eve this Thursday? That has to be an auspicious sign for 2010.

(Love the Fairy Tale Tarot by Karen Mahoney. I heart the Tarot of Prague cards if I could ever find them for a reasonable price).

Make SoulCollage card for New Year. Here’s the one I made most recently for the Witness card, the one who sees without judgment and draws us up to higher consciousness:image151

Collecting images and ideas for a vision board for what I want to be, create, and bring into the New Year.

One thing I want to do is teach and facilitate more creative workshops and retreats.

Here’s what I already have on the calendar: SoulCollage workshop on January 9 at my home and Vision Board/SoulCollage workshop (Outer and Inner manifestation) with my friend Lauri later in January; Crowning the Crone retreat the last weekend in February in Durham; and the BEAR retreat on Cape Cod the last weekend in March in which I will facilitate 2 workshops on Meeting and Manifesting the Triple Goddess. More to come!

Reading a good book

I’m currently reading Wesley the Owl–The Remarkable Love Story of an Owl and His Girl by Stacey O’Brien

Did you know that owls mate for life? If an owl’s mate dies it will often get depressed, stop eating, and die of grief soon after. Did you know that the reason owls can turn their heads 180 degrees is because underneath all that feather and fluff is a very long, thin, neck that can twist on its axis to keep an eye out for both prey and predators? Did you know that even though we tend to think of owl’s night vision as its most amazing feature, it’s really its hearing that is the owl’s primary sense organ. One ear is higher up on its head than the other, allowing the owl to triangulate the sound of it’s prey and swoop down on it with amazing accuracy. A barn owl can locate a mouse under three feet of snow by homing in on its heartbeat! (If owl is your totem, like she is mine, it’s important to learn about its prey, too. The mouse — attention to detail — has much to teach us as well.)

Enjoy the in between!


About The Author

I am in a stage of new beginnings, of starting over on the other side of the continent from California, where I spent 38 years of my life. Moving to North Carolina was a bit of a shock to my system. Not so much culture shock but the shock of transplanting myself and starting over as a therapist, artist, and wild woman. I had to figure out how I was going to do it differently than I had been doing it. Because I knew I needed to change the way I worked outwardly to match the way I was feeling and moving inwardly and make it more playful, and at the same time, deep and meaningful. I knew I wanted to work with women primarily, to help them find their way on the heroine's journey to wholeness. I knew I wanted to bring more creative expression to my work because that was what was working for me--a way to bypass all the analytical thinking, perfectionism, and psychological paradigms largely created by men, and find more more intuitive ways of Being, Creating and Flowing with Life, in keeping with the Divine Feminine. I like working with the triple goddess: maiden, mother and crone, which describes the three stages of life as well as inner states of being--the innocent/adventurer; the nurturer and active doer; and the wise being who has the advantage of overview and doesn't care as much what others think of her as long as she is being true to herself. The triple goddess is found in most all cultures and traditions and helps us move out of dualistic thinking patterns and find our way to a more integrated and balanced way of life. As I forge a new path, I want to connect with women all over the world, to help women own their power, and to both explore and offer tools for self-discovery and self-care. Creating my interactive e-book, "In the Lap of the Goddess: Connecting With the Divine Feminine," and my Goddess Temple e-courses based on the workbook are my offerings, a way to share with women the knowledge and wisdom we all hold within us, reflected in the goddess throughout history, across time, and in every corner of the world.

Comments

4 Responses to “The In Between”

  1. jen says:

    i would love to own my power!!! stephanie, wishing you,chloe and rob a magical 2010. lots of love, jen
    ps………chloe is gorgeous!!!!!

  2. Stephanie says:

    I think we own our power by loving and believing in ourselves and stepping forward like the fool in the tarot deck with innocence and vulnerability. The fool is not concerned with what others think and is willing to take risks. Beginner’s mind. It’s okay if we make a mistake, because we’re learning and growing along the way–in fact that’s how we become the queen. Love to you!

  3. Pati Maez says:

    How DIVINE! LOVE and JOY

  4. I too am re-creating myself in my 60th decade. Isn’t it a wonderful journey? I resonated with your word “I had to figure out how I was going to do it differently than I had before.” My rebuilding of my creative self and therapy practice and SoulCollage® are all coming together in interesting ways. I wish you well on your exciting new path!

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